Child Specialist Indirapuram. How to manage the child during a tantrum episode.? I is important to remember to keep your cool and stay calm when sponding to a tantrum. It is not the right time to try and convince logically or make the child understand when she is throwing a temper tantrum.It has to remember that tantrums are norma.l Reacting by shouting and or hitting the child will only worsen the situation .When responding do not bend the rules that you have set a give in to the child unreasonable demand. Maintain a quite and peaceful atmosphere in order to contain the amount of stress that you face.Try to create an environment in which both you and your child feel better suited to bring the tantrum to a resolution. When the child throws a tantum away from home let the child to a quiet place like the car or a toilet Ensure the child safety until the tantum has subsidy.